Sunday, June 24, 2012
Come! Lets play a LOVE game :)
1. You are walking to your boyfriend/girlfriend's house. There are two roads to get there. One is a straight path which takes you there quickly, but it is very plain and boring. The other is curvy and full of wonderful sights on the way, but takes quite a while to reach your loved one's house. Which path do you choose? Short or long?
2. On the way, you see two roses bushes. One is full of white roses. One is full of red roses. You decide to pick 20 roses for your boyfriend/girlfriend. What colour combination do you choose? (Any combination including all one colour is fine)
3. You finally get to your boyfriend/girlfriend's house. You ring bell and the maid answers. You can ask the maid to please get your loved one, or you may go get them yourself. Which action do you take? Ask the maid or do it yourself?
4. Now, you go up to your boyfriend/girlfriend's room. No one is there. You can leave the roses by the window sill, or on the bed. Where do you put the roses? Bed or window?
5. Later, its time for bed. You and your loved one go to sleep, in separate rooms. You wake up in the morning, and go to your boyfriend/girlfriend's room to check up on him/her. You enter the room: Is he/she awake or sleeping?
6. It's time to go home now, and you start to head back. You can take either road home now: The plain, boring one that gets you home fast; or the curvy, sight-filled road that you can just casually take your time with. Which road do you choose? Short or long?
Haa.. dah pilih dah semua jawapan korang? Anda pasti dengan jawapan anda? Muktamat?? hehe.. bajet 'who wants to be the millionaire' plak.. hehe.. okey jum kita tengok jawapannya~
1. Which road do yo choose to take your love's house?
The roads represent our attitude towards falling in love. If you choose the short one, you fall in love quickly and easily. If you choose the long one, you take your time and do not fall in love easily.
2. What combination of roses do you choose to give your love?
The number of red roses represent how much you expect to give in relationship. The number of white roses represent how much you expect in a relationship. Therefore, if a person choose all red with one white, he/she gives 90% in the relationship but expects to receive only 10% back.
3. Do you ask the maid to get your love, or do you do it yourself?
This question shows your attitude in handling relationship problems. If you asked the maid to get your loved one, then you may beat around the bush, maybe asking a third party to intervene. Avoidance of problems runs high. If you went and got your loved one yourself, then you are pretty direct. If there is a problem, you confront it and deal with it. You want to work it out right away.
4. Where do you put the roses? On the window sill or on the bed?
The replacement of the roses indicates how often you'd like to see your boyfriend/girlfriend. Placing the roses on the bed means you need lots of reassurance in the relationship, and you'd want to see your loved one every day, if possible. Placing the roses by the window shows that how don't expect or need to see your loved one too often.
5. Do you find your love asleep or awake?
Finding your boyfriend/girlfriend asleep: you accept your loved one the way they are. Finding them awake: you expect him/her to change for you.
6. Which road do you choose to go home?
The short and long roads now represent how long you stay in love. If you chose the short one, you fall out of love easily. If you chose the long one, you tend to stay in love for a long time.
Okey.. so camne analysis korg.. puas hati or ade yang tak puas hati nie? this is just a game guys.. jangan lah percaya 100% plak ye.. kang ade plak yang nak main saman-saman ciQ tyah plak sebab kes tak puas hati.. sudah~ tak pasal ciQ tyah nk kena cari lawyer nanti.. lawyer buruk Ciq tyah mampu lah.. hehe.. peace :)
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
13 Cara Suami Melayan Isteri Mengikut Cara Rasulullah SAW
Sekadar untuk renungan bersama.. jum baca..
1. Jangan tidak pedulikan isteri yang sedang merajuk atau berkecil hati. Buangkan ego, minta maaf jika suami bersalah dan pujuk dengan mesra. Mungkin apa yang berlaku hari ini suami akan kata “Udah-udah la merajuk tu, buruk beno gayanya udah tua-tua pon merajuk lagi”
2. Tanamkan sifat menghormati isteri anda yang banyak menjaga minum pakai dan anak-anak anda dirumah. Bermain kayu 3 dibelakang isteri mungkin kurangnya rasa hormat dan menghargai si isteri(selain masalah lain)
3. Jika isteri melakukan salah atau ada perangai yang suami tidak sukai, tegur dengan baik dan bijaksana. Pukul isteri bukan caranya.
4. Ambil berat kesihatan isteri. Segera merawat isteri yang sakit, jika serius terus bawa pergi jumpa klinik.
5. Beri perhatian ketika isteri ketika bercakap. Pandang mukanya ketika bercakap. mungkin ada luahan perasaan atau masalah untuk dikongsi dengan anda.
6 Isteri tidak suka suami bandingkan dia dengan isteri orang lain baik dari segi paras rupa mahupun masakan. Mungkin bandingkan masakan emak anda dengan masakan isteri anda juga boleh timbulkan rasa kurang senang isteri anda.
7. Ringankan kerja isteri dirumah. Buat anak sama-sama jadi jaga anak juga sama-sama. Bukan melepaskan tanggung jawab kerja rumah semuanya kepada isteri.
8. Jika anda keluar melepak dengan kawan-kawan, ingat isteri dirumah. Jadi jangan pulang lewat dan beli la sesuatu untuknya.
9. Seperti mana isteri perlu menjaga aib suami begitu la juga kepada suami. Suami perlu jaga aib isteri.
10. Elakan untuk mengutuk isteri anda. Terutamanya depan orang lain.
11. Suami jangan kedekut. Bukan barang rumah sendiri pun isteri perlu belikan. Kalau suami tak cukup duit tu lain cerita.
12. Jangan bersepah dan pengotor. Kalau anda merokok, perlu elakan dari merokok dalam rumah dan depan anak-anak.
13. Setiap keputusan yang ingin dibuat perlu berbincangan dengan isteri. Isteri pula jangan la “Ikut abang la..saya ikut aje” setiap kali suami meminta pandangan.
Sesungguhnya peribadi Rasulullah itu adalah peribadi yang paling baik untuk menjadi ikutan.. Sama-sama lah kita cuba mencontohinya.. Cuba dulu tak salah kan :)
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